Bridges on Proverbs 25:21-22
 
 
Charles Bridges on Proverbs 25:21-22
 
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21.  If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink: 22.  For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the LORD shall reward thee.
 
In what heathen code of morals shall we find this perfection of love? Every system concedes largely to selfishness. None reach beyond “loving those that love us,” of which the true Lawgiver justly asks, “What reward have ye?” (Matthew 5:46, 47.) Nay — the corrupt Jewish teachers could not rise to this sublime standard. ‘They did not, it seems, perceive anything to be disapproved in hatred, more than in good will. And, according to their system of morals, “our enemy” was the proper natural object of one of these passions, as “our neighbor” was of the other.’ They could not come up to the law: and therefore, perverting the rule of judicial, to authorize private, vengeance, they brought the law down to their own level.
The agreement between the Old and New Testament codes is most complete. Both were dictated by the same Spirit. Each stamps the other with divine authority. ‘The law of love is not expounded more spirituality in any single precept either of Christ or his Apostles, than in this exhortation.’ We need not therefore disparage one system, in order to exalt the other. “The new commandment is that which we had from the beginning;” old in its authority; “new” only, as enforced by a new principle and example. To suppose that the gospel stretches beyond the measure of the law, would imply either that the law demanded too little, or the Gospel too much. Neither supposition honors the law, as the unchangeable transcript of the divine perfections.
There may be no open breach of the law, while yet the heart revolts from its high standard. Circumstances may hinder open retaliation. Our enemy may be out of our reach, or may be too great to offend with impunity. But the grudge remains. There would be a pleasure at his misfortune. We think of him only in connection with our injuries. The spark may be confined for years, and on some favorable opportunity burst out into a murderous flame. (2 Samuel 13:23, 28.) How many haltings and shiftings are there at best, before we fully embrace the obligation! How much of a retorting spirit, or measuring our conduct towards our enemy by his towards us! And if on any point we have constrained our selfish hearts to return good for evil, what ministering to self-complacency, or self-righteousness!
We are not bound to trust our enemies; but we are bound to forgive them. And yet too often our “love” to them is only ceasing to quarrel with them. If we put off revenge, as inconsistent with our Christian name; yet do we “put on, as the elect of God, bowels of mercies — forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any”? (Colossians 3:12, 13.) ‘Love is of too substantial a nature to be made up of mere negatives; and withal too operative to terminate in bare desires.’ We may profess our good-will towards our enemy, that we forgive and pray for him from our heart. But unless we are ready with the practical exercise of sympathy — feeding him when he is hungry, and giving him to drink, when thirsty — we are only the victims of our own self-delusion. ‘O noble revenge of Elisha’ — exclaims Bishop Hall, ‘to feast his persecutors! To provide a table for those who had provided a grave for him! No revenge but this is heroical, and fit for Christian imitation.’ To feed our hungry enemy with the tenderness of a nurse, who breaks the portion into morsels for her infant's nourishment — What a splendor does nature's opposition give to this victory of grace!
No man ever conquered his enemy's heart by revenge; many by love. Was it not thus, that the Almighty Savior dissolved the hardness of our unyielding hearts? Let the effort be tried. Surround the intractable metal beneath and above; not only putting it over the fire, but heaping coals of fire upon it. Few hearts are so obdurate, as not to melt under the mighty energy of patient, self-denying, burning love. (1 Samuel 24:16-20; 26:25.) Or even should it be dross that resists the vehement flame, all will not be lost. If thine enemy will not recompense thee for all the good done to him, concern not thyself with that. The LORD shall reward thee. The God of love will honor his own image on his own children. (Matthew 5:44, 45.) David in this confidence restrained the rising vengeance in his zealous servants, and in similar forbearance found his “prayer for his enemy's good returned into his own bosom.” We are directed to return “blessing for railing, knowing that hereunto are we called, that we should inherit a blessing.” (1 Peter 3:9.) Our chief aim therefore must be to gain the victory of meekness and love. The perverseness of our enemies will thus become a great advantage to us. We shall be indebted to them for some measure of conformity to our Divine Master.
To dispute the reasonableness of the precept is to say, that ‘man is the proper object of good-will, whatever his faults are, when they respect others; but not when they respect myself. I am sure,’ (adds Bishop Butler — probing to the bottom) ‘there is nothing in it unreasonable. It is indeed no more than that we should not indulge a passion, which, if generally indulged, would propagate itself, so as almost to lay waste the world.’
But most reasonable as this precept is, it is infinitely removed from man's native power. The rules, no less than the doctrines, of God, are “foolishness to him.” (1 Corinthians 2:14.) Let those who look to “enter into life by keeping the commandments,” begin with this. They would soon see that they might as soon turn the sun backward; that they could as readily cut “off a right hand,” as reach it out to feed an enemy in distress. Such an exhibition of love would be in their eyes an ideal perfection; or at least, like an exquisite piece of workmanship, which every one admires, but no one attempts to imitate.
Yet is it really impracticable? So the world counts it. So my own corrupt heart finds it. But “I can do all things” — this then among the rest — “through Christ which strengtheneth me.” (Philippians 4:13.) It shall then be done willingly, joyfully. My enemy has no claim upon my life; yet he that bids me love him, claims and deserves my full obedience. (John 14:15.) ‘We are the disciples of him who died for his enemies.’ Did we but drink more largely into his spirit, this impracticable precept would be not our task or our cross, but our delight and indulgence.
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Matthew 5:46, 47
46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? 47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?
 
 
Footnote:
Bp. Butler's Sermons at the Rolls. Ser. VIII.
 
 
Footnote:
Matthew 5:43. Deuteronomy 7:1, 2; 23:6; 25:17-19.
 

 
Matthew 5:43
43 ¶ Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
 
Deuteronomy 7:1, 2
1 ¶ When the LORD thy God shall bring thee into the land whither thou goest to possess it, and hath cast out many nations before thee, the Hittites, and the Girgashites, and the Amorites, and the Canaanites, and the Perizzites, and the Hivites, and the Jebusites, seven nations greater and mightier than thou; 2 And when the LORD thy God shall deliver them before thee; thou shalt smite them, and utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor shew mercy unto them:
 
Deuteronomy 23:6
6 Thou shalt not seek their peace nor their prosperity all thy days for ever. {prosperity: Heb. good}
 
Deuteronomy 25:17-19
17 Remember what Amalek did unto thee by the way, when ye were come forth out of Egypt; 18 How he met thee by the way, and smote the hindmost of thee, even all that were feeble behind thee, when thou wast faint and weary; and he feared not God. 19 Therefore it shall be, when the LORD thy God hath given thee rest from all thine enemies round about, in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance to possess it, that thou shalt blot out the remembrance of Amalek from under heaven; thou shalt not forget it.
 
 
Footnote:
Compare Romans 12:20, 21, with text. Exodus 23:4, 5, with Matthew 5:44. Our church has not neglected to imbue her worshippers with this blessed spirit. See the Litany and Collect for St. Stephen's day.
 

 
Compare
Proverbs 12:20, 21
20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. 21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
 
with text.
Proverbs 25:21, 22
21 ¶ If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink: 22 For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the LORD shall reward thee.
 
Exodus 23:4, 5
4 If thou meet thine enemy's ox or his ass going astray, thou shalt surely bring it back to him again. 5 If thou see the ass of him that hateth thee lying under his burden, and wouldest forbear to help him, thou shalt surely help with him. {and...: or, wilt thou cease to help him? or, and wouldest cease to leave thy business for him: thou shalt surely leave it to join with him}
 
with
Matthew 5:44
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
 
 
Footnote:
Scott in loco.
 
 
Footnote:
John 13:34. 1 John 2:7, 8. 2 John 5.
 

 
John 13:34
34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
 
1 John 2:7, 8
7 ¶ Brethren, I write no new commandment unto you, but an old commandment which ye had from the beginning. The old commandment is the word which ye have heard from the beginning. 8 Again, a new commandment I write unto you, which thing is true in him and in you: because the darkness is past, and the true light now shineth.
 
2 John 5
5 ¶ And now I beseech thee, lady, not as though I wrote a new commandment unto thee, but that which we had from the beginning, that we love one another.
 
 
Footnote:
Leviticus 19:18. James 5:9.
 

 
Leviticus 19:18
18 Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.
 
James 5:9
9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door. {Grudge not: or, Groan, or, Grieve not}
 
 
Footnote:
Chapter 24:17, 18.
 

 
Proverbs 24:17, 18
17 ¶ Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth: 18 Lest the LORD see it, and it displease him, and he turn away his wrath from him. {it displeaseth...: Heb. it be evil in his eyes}
 
 
2 Samuel 13:23, 28
23 And it came to pass after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baalhazor, which is beside Ephraim: and Absalom invited all the king's sons. 28 Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon's heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant. {have...: or, will you not, since I have commanded you?} {valiant: Heb. sons of valour}
 
 
Colossians 3:12, 13
12 ¶ Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; 13 Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. {quarrel: or, complaint}
 
 
Footnote:
South's Sermon on Matthew 5:44.
 

 
Matthew 5:44
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
 
 
Footnote:
Contemplations, Book xix. Cont. 2, on 2 Kings 6:22, 23. See another equally noble example in the most degenerate times of Judah. 2 Chronicles 28:12-15.
 

 
2 Kings 6:22, 23
22 And he answered, Thou shalt not smite them: wouldest thou smite those whom thou hast taken captive with thy sword and with thy bow? set bread and water before them, that they may eat and drink, and go to their master. 23 And he prepared great provision for them: and when they had eaten and drunk, he sent them away, and they went to their master. So the bands of Syria came no more into the land of Israel.
 
2 Chronicles 28:12-15
12 Then certain of the heads of the children of Ephraim, Azariah the son of Johanan, Berechiah the son of Meshillemoth, and Jehizkiah the son of Shallum, and Amasa the son of Hadlai, stood up against them that came from the war, 13 And said unto them, Ye shall not bring in the captives hither: for whereas we have offended against the LORD already, ye intend to add more to our sins and to our trespass: for our trespass is great, and there is fierce wrath against Israel. 14 So the armed men left the captives and the spoil before the princes and all the congregation. 15 And the men which were expressed by name rose up, and took the captives, and with the spoil clothed all that were naked among them, and arrayed them, and shod them, and gave them to eat and to drink, and anointed them, and carried all the feeble of them upon asses, and brought them to Jericho, the city of palm trees, to their brethren: then they returned to Samaria.
 
 
Footnote:
Ywmize. LXX. Romans 12:20. Compare Schlesner.
 

 
Romans 12:20
20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
 
 
1 Samuel 24:16-20
16 ¶ And it came to pass, when David had made an end of speaking these words unto Saul, that Saul said, Is this thy voice, my son David? And Saul lifted up his voice, and wept. 17 And he said to David, Thou art more righteous than I: for thou hast rewarded me good, whereas I have rewarded thee evil. 18 And thou hast shewed this day how that thou hast dealt well with me: forasmuch as when the LORD had delivered me into thine hand, thou killedst me not. {delivered: Heb. shut up} 19 For if a man find his enemy, will he let him go well away? wherefore the LORD reward thee good for that thou hast done unto me this day. 20 And now, behold, I know well that thou shalt surely be king, and that the kingdom of Israel shall be established in thine hand.
 
1 Samuel 26:25
25 Then Saul said to David, Blessed be thou, my son David: thou shalt both do great things, and also shalt still prevail. So David went on his way, and Saul returned to his place.
 
 
Matthew 5:44, 45
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; 45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
 
 
Footnote:
2 Samuel 16:9-12. Psalm 7:4.
 

 
2 Samuel 16:9-12
9 Then said Abishai the son of Zeruiah unto the king, Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? let me go over, I pray thee, and take off his head. 10 And the king said, What have I to do with you, ye sons of Zeruiah? so let him curse, because the LORD hath said unto him, Curse David. Who shall then say, Wherefore hast thou done so? 11 And David said to Abishai, and to all his servants, Behold, my son, which came forth of my bowels, seeketh my life: how much more now may this Benjamite do it? let him alone, and let him curse; for the LORD hath bidden him. 12 It may be that the LORD will look on mine affliction, and that the LORD will requite me good for his cursing this day. {affliction: or, tears: Heb. eye}
 
Psalm 7:4
4 If I have rewarded evil unto him that was at peace with me; (yea, I have delivered him that without cause is mine enemy:)
 
 
Footnote:
Psalm 35:13. Compare Matthew 10:13.
 

 
Psalm 35:13
13 But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth: I humbled my soul with fasting; and my prayer returned into mine own bosom. {humbled: or, afflicted}
 
Compare
Matthew 10:13
13 And if the house be worthy, let your peace come upon it: but if it be not worthy, let your peace return to you. 13 And if the house be worthy, let your peace come upon it: but if it be not worthy, let your peace return to you.
 
 
1 Peter 3:9
9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.
 
 
Footnote:
Bp. Butler's Sermons at the Rolls. Ser. IX.
 
 
1 Corinthians 2:14
14 But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.
 
 
Philippians 4:13
13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
 
 
John 14:15
15 ¶ If ye love me, keep my commandments.
 
 
Footnote:
Bishop Wilson (Sodor and Man.) Romans 5:10. Compare Luke 23:34. Was not this his own obedience to his own law? Matthew 5:44.
 

 
Romans 5:10
10 For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.
 
Compare
Luke 23:34
34 Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots.
 
Was not this his own obedience to his own law?
Matthew 5:44
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;