Bridges on Proverbs 3:3-4
 
 
Charles Bridges on Proverbs 3:3-4
 
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3.  Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart:  4.  So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man. {good...: or, good success}
 
Mercy and truth are the glorious perfections of God; always in combined exercise (Genesis 32:10. Psalm 25:10; 85:10; 89:14; 100:5; 117:2. Micah 7:18-20) for his people's good. While we rest upon them for salvation, let us copy them in our profession. Are not his children new-created in his image? Let then our Father's image be manifested in us, “as his dear children.” (Ephesians 4:24; 5:1, 2, 8.) Let these graces be, as with God, in combination. ‘The want of one buries the commendation of the other. Such a one is a merciful man to the poor; but there is no truth in him. Such a one is very just in his dealings, but as hard as flint’. “Put on, as the elect of God, bowels of mercy. But lie not one to another. Speak every man truth with his neighbor.” (Colossians 3:12, with 9. Ephesians 4:25.) Indeed, ‘as a rich sparkling diamond added both value and lustre to a golden ring; so do these virtues of justice and mercy, well attempered, bring a rich addition of glory to the crowns of the greatest monarchs.’
But these virtues must not be in temporary or occasional exercise. Let them not forsake thee. Bind them as jewels about thy neck. (Chapter 6:21; 7:3. Deuteronomy 6:8.) Let them be “written, not in tables of stone, but in fleshly tables of the heart.” (Chapter 7:3. 2 Corinthians 3:3.) God indeed is not thy debtor; yet none shall serve him for nought. The man who shows mercy to his neighbour shall find it with him. (Psalm 18:25. Matthew 5:7.) “They that deal truly are his delight.” (Chapter 12:22.) So shalt thou find favour and good understanding (Psalm 111:10) — (success) (Joshua 1:7, 8. M.R.) — both in his sight, and in the sight of man. Witness Joseph in Egypt (Genesis 39:2-4, 21-23; 41:37-43; 45:16); David in the family of Saul (1 Samuel 18:5, 14-16); the servants of God in the eastern courts; the early Christians with the people around them. (Acts 2:44-47.) What is more lovely than thus to live down reproach by consistent godliness? What more acceptable to God, or more edifying to the Church? (Romans 14:16-19.) The Scripture connects the favour of God with the favour of men, as if the one was often the fruit of the other. (Compare chapter 16:7.) Such was the record of the holy child. (Luke 2:52.) The highest crown of a youthful profession is conformity to this Divine pattern. (Compare 1 Samuel 2:26.)
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Genesis 32:10
10 I am not worthy of the least of all the mercies, and of all the truth, which thou hast shewed unto thy servant; for with my staff I passed over this Jordan; and now I am become two bands. {I am not...: Heb. I am less than all}
 
Psalm 25:10
10 All the paths of the LORD are mercy and truth unto such as keep his covenant and his testimonies.
 
Psalm 85:10
10 Mercy and truth are met together; righteousness and peace have kissed each other.
 
Psalm 89:14
14 Justice and judgment are the habitation of thy throne: mercy and truth shall go before thy face. {habitation: or, establishment}
 
Psalm 100:5
5 For the LORD is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations. {to all...: Heb. to generation and generation}
 
Psalm 117:2
2 For his merciful kindness is great toward us: and the truth of the LORD endureth for ever. Praise ye the LORD.
 
Micah 7:18-20
18 Who is a God like unto thee, that pardoneth iniquity, and passeth by the transgression of the remnant of his heritage? he retaineth not his anger for ever, because he delighteth in mercy. 19 He will turn again, he will have compassion upon us; he will subdue our iniquities; and thou wilt cast all their sins into the depths of the sea. 20 Thou wilt perform the truth to Jacob, and the mercy to Abraham, which thou hast sworn unto our fathers from the days of old.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Ephesians 4:24
24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. {true...: or, holiness of truth}
 
Ephesians 5:1, 2, 8
1 ¶ Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; 2 And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour. 8 For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light:
 
 
Footnote:
F. Taylor's Comment on Chapter i-ix.; 4to. 1655-1657.
 
 
Colossians 3:12
12 ¶ Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
 
with
Colossians 3:9
9 Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;
 
Ephesians 4:25
25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
 
 
Footnote:
Bishop Sanderson's Sermon on Chapter 24:10-12.
 

 
Proverbs 24:10-12
10 ¶ If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small. {small: Heb. narrow} 11 ¶ If thou forbear to deliver them that are drawn unto death, and those that are ready to be slain; 12 If thou sayest, Behold, we knew it not; doth not he that pondereth the heart consider it? and he that keepeth thy soul, doth not he know it? and shall not he render to every man according to his works?
 
 
Proverbs 6:21
21 Bind them continually upon thine heart, and tie them about thy neck.
 
Proverbs 7:3
3 Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.
 
Deuteronomy 6:8
8 And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes.
 
 
Proverbs 7:3
3 Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.
 
2 Corinthians 3:3
3 Forasmuch as ye are manifestly declared to be the epistle of Christ ministered by us, written not with ink, but with the Spirit of the living God; not in tables of stone, but in fleshy tables of the heart.
 
 
Psalm 18:25
25 With the merciful thou wilt shew thyself merciful; with an upright man thou wilt shew thyself upright;
 
Matthew 5:7
7 Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
 
 
Proverbs 12:22
22 ¶ Lying lips are abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly are his delight.
 
 
Psalm 111:10
10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth for ever. {a good...: or, good success} {his commandments: Heb. them}
 
 
Joshua 1:7, 8. M.R.
7 Only be thou strong and very courageous, that thou mayest observe to do according to all the law, which Moses my servant commanded thee: turn not from it to the right hand or to the left, that thou mayest prosper whithersoever thou goest. {prosper: or, do wisely} 8 This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success. {have...: or, do wisely}
 
 
Genesis 39:2-4, 21-23
2 And the LORD was with Joseph, and he was a prosperous man; and he was in the house of his master the Egyptian. 3 And his master saw that the LORD was with him, and that the LORD made all that he did to prosper in his hand. 4 And Joseph found grace in his sight, and he served him: and he made him overseer over his house, and all that he had he put into his hand. 21 But the LORD was with Joseph, and shewed him mercy, and gave him favour in the sight of the keeper of the prison. {shewed...: Heb. extended kindness unto him} 22 And the keeper of the prison committed to Joseph's hand all the prisoners that were in the prison; and whatsoever they did there, he was the doer of it. 23 The keeper of the prison looked not to any thing that was under his hand; because the LORD was with him, and that which he did, the LORD made it to prosper.
 
Genesis 41:37-43
37 And the thing was good in the eyes of Pharaoh, and in the eyes of all his servants. 38 And Pharaoh said unto his servants, Can we find such a one as this is, a man in whom the Spirit of God is? 39 And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, Forasmuch as God hath shewed thee all this, there is none so discreet and wise as thou art: 40 Thou shalt be over my house, and according unto thy word shall all my people be ruled: only in the throne will I be greater than thou. {be ruled: Heb. be armed, or, kiss} 41 And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, See, I have set thee over all the land of Egypt. 42 And Pharaoh took off his ring from his hand, and put it upon Joseph's hand, and arrayed him in vestures of fine linen, and put a gold chain about his neck; {fine...: or, silk} 43 And he made him to ride in the second chariot which he had; and they cried before him, Bow the knee: and he made him ruler over all the land of Egypt. {Bow...: or, Tender father: Heb. Abrech}
 
Genesis 45:16
16 ¶ And the fame thereof was heard in Pharaoh's house, saying, Joseph's brethren are come: and it pleased Pharaoh well, and his servants. {pleased...: Heb. was good in the eyes of Pharaoh}
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
1 Samuel 18:5, 14-16
5 And David {1} went out whithersoever Saul sent him, and {2} behaved himself wisely: and Saul set him over the men of war, and it was good in the sight of all the people, and also in the sight of Saul's servants. {1) Or went out; whithersoever Saul sent him, he etc 2) Or prospered} 14 And David behaved himself wisely in all his ways; and the LORD was with him. {behaved...: or, prospered} 15 Wherefore when Saul saw that he behaved himself very wisely, he was afraid of him. 16 But all Israel and Judah loved David, because he went out and came in before them.
 
 
Footnote:
Daniel 1:8, 9; 4:8, 9; 5:11; 6:1-3, 27, 28; — His three companions, 3:30; Ezra, 7:9-12. Nehemiah 2:1-6. Mordecai, Esther 10:3.
 

 
Daniel 1:8, 9
8 ¶ But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself. 9 Now God had brought Daniel into favour and tender love with the prince of the eunuchs.
 
Daniel 4:8, 9
8 But at the last Daniel came in before me, whose name was Belteshazzar, according to the name of my god, and in whom is the spirit of the holy gods: and before him I told the dream, saying, 9 O Belteshazzar, master of the magicians, because I know that the spirit of the holy gods is in thee, and no secret troubleth thee, tell me the visions of my dream that I have seen, and the interpretation thereof.
 
Daniel 5:11
11 There is a man in thy kingdom, in whom is the spirit of the holy gods; and in the days of thy father light and understanding and wisdom, like the wisdom of the gods, was found in him; whom the king Nebuchadnezzar thy father, the king, I say, thy father, made master of the magicians, astrologers, Chaldeans, and soothsayers; {father: or, grandfather}
 
Daniel 6:1-3, 27, 28
1 ¶ It pleased Darius to set over the kingdom an hundred and twenty princes, which should be over the whole kingdom; 2 And over these three presidents; of whom Daniel was first: that the princes might give accounts unto them, and the king should have no damage. 3 Then this Daniel was preferred above the presidents and princes, because an excellent spirit was in him; and the king thought to set him over the whole realm. 27 He delivereth and rescueth, and he worketh signs and wonders in heaven and in earth, who hath delivered Daniel from the power of the lions. {power: Chaldee, hand} 28 So this Daniel prospered in the reign of Darius, and in the reign of Cyrus the Persian.
 
His three companions,
Daniel 3:30
30 Then the king promoted Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, in the province of Babylon. {promoted: Chaldee, made to prosper}
 
Ezra,
Ezra 7:9-12
9 For upon the first day of the first month began he to go up from Babylon, and on the first day of the fifth month came he to Jerusalem, according to the good hand of his God upon him. {began...: Heb. was the foundation of the going up} 10 For Ezra had prepared his heart to seek the law of the LORD, and to do it, and to teach in Israel statutes and judgments. 11 ¶ Now this is the copy of the letter that the king Artaxerxes gave unto Ezra the priest, the scribe, even a scribe of the words of the commandments of the LORD, and of his statutes to Israel. 12 Artaxerxes, king of kings, unto Ezra the priest, a scribe of the law of the God of heaven, perfect peace, and at such a time. {unto...: or, to Ezra the priest, a perfect scribe of the law of the God of heaven, peace, etc}
 
Nehemiah 2:1-6
1 ¶ And it came to pass in the month Nisan, in the twentieth year of Artaxerxes the king, that wine was before him: and I took up the wine, and gave it unto the king. Now I had not been beforetime sad in his presence. 2 Wherefore the king said unto me, Why is thy countenance sad, seeing thou art not sick? this is nothing else but sorrow of heart. Then I was very sore afraid, 3 And said unto the king, Let the king live for ever: why should not my countenance be sad, when the city, the place of my fathers' sepulchres, lieth waste, and the gates thereof are consumed with fire? 4 Then the king said unto me, For what dost thou make request? So I prayed to the God of heaven. 5 And I said unto the king, If it please the king, and if thy servant have found favour in thy sight, that thou wouldest send me unto Judah, unto the city of my fathers' sepulchres, that I may build it. 6 And the king said unto me, (the queen also sitting by him,) For how long shall thy journey be? and when wilt thou return? So it pleased the king to send me; and I set him a time. {queen: Heb. wife}
 
Mordecai,
Esther 10:3
3 For Mordecai the Jew was next unto king Ahasuerus, and great among the Jews, and accepted of the multitude of his brethren, seeking the wealth of his people, and speaking peace to all his seed.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Acts 2:44-47
44 And all that believed were together, and had all things common; 45 And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need. 46 And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness of heart, {from...: or, at home}} 47 Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved.
 
 
Romans 14:16-19
16 Let not then your good be evil spoken of: 17 For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost. 18 For he that in these things serveth Christ is acceptable to God, and approved of men. 19 Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.
 
 
Proverbs 16:7
7 ¶ When a man's ways please the LORD, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him.
 
 
Luke 2:52
52 And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man. {stature: or, age}
 
 
1 Samuel 2:26
26 And the child Samuel grew on, and was in favour both with the LORD, and also with men.