Charles Bridges on Proverbs 5:15-19
 
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15.  ¶ Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well. 16.  Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets. 17.  Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee. 18.  Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. 19.  Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. {satisfy...: Heb. water thee} {be thou...: Heb. err thou always in her love}
 
Desire after forbidden enjoyments naturally springs from dissatisfaction with the blessings in possession. Where contentment is not found at home — drinking out of our own cistern — it will be sought for, however vainly, abroad. Conjugal love is chief among the earthly goods in mercy granted by God to his fallen and rebellious creature. Enjoy then with thankfulness thine own, and desire not thy neighbour's well. (Exodus 20:17. 2 Samuel 11:2-3.) If a happy issue is given (Psalm 127:3-5; 128.), let it be as fountains (Compare Numbers 24:7; Deuteronomy 33:28; Psalm 68:26; Isaiah 48:1) dispersed abroad, to fertilize with godly influence the way through which their course may be directed. (Compare Zechariah 8:5.) Rejoice with the wife of thy youth. (Deuteronomy 24:5. Ecclesiastes 9:9.) Regard her as the special gift of thy Father's hand. (Chapter 19:14.) Cherish her with gentleness and purity (Genesis 24:67), as the loving hind and pleasant roe. Whatsoever interrupts the strictest harmony in this delicate relationship, opens the door to imminent temptation. Tender, well-regulated, domestic affection is the best defense against the vagrant desires of unlawful passion. Yea — it is consecrated by the Word of God itself to the high purpose of shadowing out “the great mystery — loving and cherishing our own flesh, even as the Lord the Church.” (Ephesians 5:25, 29.)
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Footnote:
The beauty of the figure is illustrated from the circumstance, that the houses of the East appear each to have had their own cistern. 2 Kings 18:31.
 

 
2 Kings 18:31
31 Hearken not to Hezekiah: for thus saith the king of Assyria, Make an agreement with me by a present, and come out to me, and then eat ye every man of his own vine, and every one of his fig tree, and drink ye every one the waters of his cistern: {Make...: or, Seek my favour: Heb. Make with me a blessing} {cistern: or, pit}
 
 
Exodus 20:17
17 Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.
 
2 Samuel 11:2, 3
2 And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king's house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. 3 And David sent and enquired after the woman. And one said, Is not this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite? {Bathsheba: or, Bathshuah} {Eliam: or Ammiel}
 
 
Psalm 127:3-5
3 Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. 4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. 5 Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate. {his...: Heb. filled his quiver with them} {speak...: or, subdue, or, destroy}
 
Psalm 128
1 ¶ {A Song of degrees.} Blessed is every one that feareth the LORD; that walketh in his ways. 2 For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee. 3 Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table. 4 Behold, that thus shall the man be blessed that feareth the LORD. 5 The LORD shall bless thee out of Zion: and thou shalt see the good of Jerusalem all the days of thy life. 6 Yea, thou shalt see thy children's children, and peace upon Israel.
 
 
Numbers 24:7
7 He shall pour the water out of his buckets, and his seed shall be in many waters, and his king shall be higher than Agag, and his kingdom shall be exalted.
 
Deuteronomy 33:28
28 Israel then shall dwell in safety alone: the fountain of Jacob shall be upon a land of corn and wine; also his heavens shall drop down dew.
 
Psalm 68:26
26 Bless ye God in the congregations, even the Lord, from the fountain of Israel. {from...: or, ye that are of the fountain of Israel}
 
Isaiah 48:1
1 ¶ Hear ye this, O house of Jacob, which are called by the name of Israel, and are come forth out of the waters of Judah, which swear by the name of the LORD, and make mention of the God of Israel, but not in truth, nor in righteousness.
 
 
Zechariah 8:5
5 And the streets of the city shall be full of boys and girls playing in the streets thereof.
 
 
Deuteronomy 24:5
5 ¶ When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken. {neither...: Heb. not any thing shall pass upon him}
 
Ecclesiastes 9:9
9 Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun. {Live...: Heb. See, or, Enjoy life}
 
 
Proverbs 19:14
14 ¶ House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.
 
 
Genesis 24:67
67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death.
 
 
Footnote:
Compare 2 Samuel 12:3. The hind and the roe were objects of special delight (Song of Solomon 2:17; 3:5) and endearment — a picture of the lively delight, which the wife naturally engages; relaxing in her society from severer duties, and taking the liveliest pleasure in her company. As Bishop Davenant beautifully observes — ‘Abroad the man may consider himself as tossing in the waves; but at home with the wife, in repose, as in a desired haven.’ — On Colossians 3:19.
 

 
2 Samuel 12:3
3 But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter. {meat: Heb. morsel}
 
Song of Solomon 2:17
17 Until the day break, and the shadows flee away, turn, my beloved, and be thou like a roe or a young hart upon the mountains of Bether. {of Bether: or, of division}
 
Song of Solomon 3:5
5 I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.
 
Colossians 3:19
19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
 
 
Ephesians 5:25, 29
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: