Bridges on Proverbs 22:1
 
 
Charles Bridges on Proverbs 22:1
 
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1.  A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold. {loving...: or, favour is better than, etc}
 
BUT what is this good name, here commended as a precious jewel? Not the name which the Babel-builders would “make to themselves.” (Genesis 11:4.) Not as Absalom, who reared a pillar to “keep his name in remembrance,” or rather to commemorate his shame. (2 Samuel 18:18.) It is not the popular voice. So different is God's standard from man's, that to have “all men speak well of us,” would be a bad name! So apt are men to “put darkness for light; and light for darkness,” that the reputation too often serves in the place of reality, the false glare for the generous principle, the shadow for the substance, the tinsel for the gold. The good name is gained by godly consistency. The possessor is either unconscious of the gift, or humbled with the conviction that it is wholly undeserved. The loving favor connected with it is often seen in early childhood. It was the heavenly seal upon the Pentecostal Christians. And every servant of God values it as a trust and talent for his Master's service and glory.
Such is its value, that it is rather to be chosen than great riches, than silver and gold. A bye-word may be attached to riches. Add to which — “They fly away upon eagles’ wings.” But the good name “will be in everlasting remembrance.” And even now it brings confidence and respect. It largely adds to usefulness; gives authority to reproof, counsel, and example; so that if the world cannot love, neither can they despise. Hence the Christian obligation to be “blameless, as well as harmless, to shine as lights in the world.” Hence the honor of “having a good report of all men, and of the truth itself.” Hence the qualification for efficiency in the sacred office — “blameless, having a good report of them which are without.” But how often do the “dead flies” spoil “the precious ointment”! (Ecclesiastes 7:1; 10:1.) Satan, when he cannot hinder the instruments, will blemish them, to give currency to error, and to stumble the ungodly and unstable. (2 Samuel 12:14.)
We must not indeed overvalue man's estimation, much less take it as the standard of our principles, or the motive of our conduct. Yet we must not on the other hand indiscreetly underrate it — ‘I never thought’ — said the wise Sir M. Hale — ‘that reputation was the thing primarily to be looked after in the exercise of virtue (for that were to affect the substance for the sake of the shadow); but I looked at virtue and the worth of it as that which was the first desirable, and reputation as a handsome and useful accession to it.’
Some however judge — ‘So long as my conscience is clear, I care not what the world think or say of me. Other consciences are not my judges.’ Now in resisting the efforts of the world to turn us aside from the path of duty, ‘we may seasonably comfort ourselves in our own innocency, fly for refuge against the injuries of tongues into our own consciences, as into a castle; and there repose ourselves in security, disregarding the reproaches of evil men.’ But it should be our great care to stop the mouths of gainsayers; and while we count it a “very small matter to be judged of man's judgment,” most anxiously to “provide things honest, not only in the sight of the Lord, but also in the sight of men.”
Yet precious as this blessing is, take care that it be not purchased at the expense of conscience. Far better that others should blot our name, than that we should wound our consciences. ‘Two things there are,’ saith St. Augustine, ‘whereof every man should be specially chary and tender — his conscience, and his credit. But that of his conscience must be his first care; this of his name and credit must be content to come in the second place. Let him first be sure to guard his conscience well; and then may he have a due regard of his name also. Let it be his first care to secure all within, by making his peace with God and in his own breast. That done — but not before — let him look abroad if he will, and cast about as well as he can, to strengthen his reputation with and before the world.’
But though it be true, that reputation and the affection of others are better than riches; yet must we not forget that they may be in themselves vanity and a snare. And as seeking them is the infirmity, or rather (when made an idol) the sin of a noble mind, the most severe discipline is needed to preserve Christian simplicity and singleness. But “the honor that cometh from God only” is always safe. And that he should register a good name in the annals of the church, “in the book of remembrance, in the book of life” — Oh! is not this infinitely above all this world's glory? And how gladly will he own these jewels at the day of his appearing! How sure and glorious is his promise to his faithful servant — “I will not blot out his name out of the book of life; but I will confess his name before my Father and his angels”! (Revelation 3:5.)
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Footnote:
“A name” - meaning “a good name.” See chapter 18:22, n.
 

 
[The “n” above refers to a footnote found in the Scripture heading of Chapter 18:22 (see in red, below)]
 
Proverbs 18:22
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD ,,,”
 
 
 
Genesis 11:4
4 And they said, Go to, let us build us a city and a tower, whose top may reach unto heaven; and let us make us a name, lest we be scattered abroad upon the face of the whole earth.
 
 
2 Samuel 18:18
18 Now Absalom in his lifetime had taken and reared up for himself a pillar, which is in the king's dale: for he said, I have no son to keep my name in remembrance: and he called the pillar after his own name: and it is called unto this day, Absalom's place.
 
 
Footnote:
Luke 6:26; 16:15.
 

 
Luke 6:26
26 Woe unto you, when all men shall speak well of you! for so did their fathers to the false prophets.
 
Luke 16:15
15 And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God.
 
 
Footnote:
Isaiah 5:20.
 

 
Isaiah 5:20
20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter! {call...: Heb. say concerning evil, It is good, etc}
 
 
Footnote:
Heathen intelligence seemed to have some glimpse of this medium. Agesilaus - being asked how a good name was to be obtained - replied - ‘By speaking the best, and doing the most upright, things.’ Socrates to the same question answered - ‘By studying really to be what you wish to be accounted.’
 
 
Footnote:
1 Samuel 2:26. Luke 2:52.
 

 
1 Samuel 2:26
26 And the child Samuel grew on, and was in favour both with the LORD, and also with men.
 
Luke 2:52
52 And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man. {stature: or, age}
 
 
Footnote:
Acts 2:47.
 

 
Acts 2:47
47 Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved.
 
 
Footnote:
Nehemiah 1:10, 11. Philippians 2:15, 16; 4:8, 9.
 

 
Nehemiah 1:10, 11
10 Now these are thy servants and thy people, whom thou hast redeemed by thy great power, and by thy strong hand. 11 O Lord, I beseech thee, let now thine ear be attentive to the prayer of thy servant, and to the prayer of thy servants, who desire to fear thy name: and prosper, I pray thee, thy servant this day, and grant him mercy in the sight of this man. For I was the king's cupbearer.
 
Philippians 2:15, 16
15 That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world; {harmless: or, sincere} {ye shine: or, shine ye} 16 Holding forth the word of life; that I may rejoice in the day of Christ, that I have not run in vain, neither laboured in vain.
 
Philippians 4:8, 9
8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. {honest: or, venerable} 9 Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.
 
 
Footnote:
Compare Ecclesiasticus 41:(15) 12.
 

 
Douay Version:
 
Ecclesiasticus 41:15
15 Take care of a good name: for this shall continue with thee, more than a thousand treasures precious and great.
 
King James Version:
 
Ecclesiasticus 41:12
12 Have regard to thy name; for that shall continue with thee above a thousand great treasures of gold.
 
 
Footnote:
1 Samuel 25:3, 17, 25.
 

 
1 Samuel 25:3, 17, 25
3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb. 17 Now therefore know and consider what thou wilt do; for evil is determined against our master, and against all his household: for he is such a son of Belial, that a man cannot speak to him. 25 Let not my lord, I pray thee, regard this man of Belial, even Nabal: for as his name is, so is he; Nabal is his name, and folly is with him: but I thine handmaid saw not the young men of my lord, whom thou didst send. {regard: Heb. lay it to his heart} {Nabal: that is, Fool}
 
 
Footnote:
Chapter 23:5.
 

 
Proverbs 23:5
5 Wilt thou set thine eyes upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly away as an eagle toward heaven. {set...: Heb. cause thine eyes to fly upon}
 
 
Footnote:
Luke 7:4, 5. Acts 9:36-39.
 

 
Luke 7:4, 5
4 And when they came to Jesus, they besought him instantly, saying, That he was worthy for whom he should do this: 5 For he loveth our nation, and he hath built us a synagogue.
 
Acts 9:36-39
36 ¶ Now there was at Joppa a certain disciple named Tabitha, which by interpretation is called Dorcas: this woman was full of good works and almsdeeds which she did. {Dorcas: or, Doe, or, Roe} 37 And it came to pass in those days, that she was sick, and died: whom when they had washed, they laid her in an upper chamber. 38 And forasmuch as Lydda was nigh to Joppa, and the disciples had heard that Peter was there, they sent unto him two men, desiring him that he would not delay to come to them. {delay: or, be grieved} 39 Then Peter arose and went with them. When he was come, they brought him into the upper chamber: and all the widows stood by him weeping, and shewing the coats and garments which Dorcas made, while she was with them.
 
 
Footnote:
Genesis 39:4, 21; 41:37. Daniel 2:48, 49; 6:1-3.
 

 
Genesis 39:4, 21
4 And Joseph found grace in his sight, and he served him: and he made him overseer over his house, and all that he had he put into his hand. 21 But the LORD was with Joseph, and shewed him mercy, and gave him favour in the sight of the keeper of the prison. {shewed...: Heb. extended kindness unto him}
 
Genesis 41:37
37 And the thing was good in the eyes of Pharaoh, and in the eyes of all his servants.
 
Daniel 2:48, 49
48 Then the king made Daniel a great man, and gave him many great gifts, and made him ruler over the whole province of Babylon, and chief of the governors over all the wise men of Babylon. 49 Then Daniel requested of the king, and he set Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, over the affairs of the province of Babylon: but Daniel sat in the gate of the king.
 
Daniel 6:1-3
1 ¶ It pleased Darius to set over the kingdom an hundred and twenty princes, which should be over the whole kingdom; 2 And over these three presidents; of whom Daniel was first: that the princes might give accounts unto them, and the king should have no damage. 3 Then this Daniel was preferred above the presidents and princes, because an excellent spirit was in him; and the king thought to set him over the whole realm.
 
 
Footnote:
Philippians 2:15.
 

 
Philippians 2:15
15 That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world; {harmless: or, sincere} {ye shine: or, shine ye}
 
 
Footnote:
3 John 12. Acts 16:2. 2 Corinthians 8:18.
 

 
3 John 12
12 ¶ Demetrius hath good report of all men, and of the truth itself: yea, and we also bear record; and ye know that our record is true.
 
Acts 16:2
2 Which was well reported of by the brethren that were at Lystra and Iconium.
 
2 Corinthians 8:18
18 And we have sent with him the brother, whose praise is in the gospel throughout all the churches;
 
 
Footnote:
1 Timothy 3:2, 7; 4:16.
 

 
1 Timothy 3:2, 7
2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; {of good...: or, modest} 7 Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.
 
1 Timothy 4:16
16 Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself, and them that hear thee.
 
 
Ecclesiastes 7:1
1 ¶ A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth.
 
Ecclesiastes 10:1
1 ¶ Dead flies cause the ointment of the apothecary to send forth a stinking savour: so doth a little folly him that is in reputation for wisdom and honour. {Dead...: Heb. Flies of death}
 
 
2 Samuel 12:14
14 Howbeit, because by this deed thou hast given great occasion to the enemies of the LORD to blaspheme, the child also that is born unto thee shall surely die.
 
 
Footnote:
The account of the Good Steward.
 
 
Footnote:
Bp. Sanderson's Sermon on Ecclesiastes 7:1, section 30.
 

 
Ecclesiastes 7:1
1 ¶ A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth.
 
 
Footnote:
1 Corinthians 4:3, with 2 Corinthians 8:21. Compare 1 Corinthians 9:15; 2 Corinthians 11:12; 1 Peter 2:12.
 

 
1 Corinthians 4:3
3 But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged of you, or of man's judgment: yea, I judge not mine own self. {judgment: Gr. day}
 
with
2 Corinthians 8:21
21 Providing for honest things, not only in the sight of the Lord, but also in the sight of men.
 
Compare
1 Corinthians 9:15
15 ¶ But I have used none of these things: neither have I written these things, that it should be so done unto me: for it were better for me to die, than that any man should make my glorying void.
 
2 Corinthians 11:12
12 But what I do, that I will do, that I may cut off occasion from them which desire occasion; that wherein they glory, they may be found even as we.
 
1 Peter 2:12
12 Having your conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they speak against you as evildoers, they may by your good works, which they shall behold, glorify God in the day of visitation. {whereas: or, wherein}
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Footnote:
Bp. Sanderson, ut supra, section 23.
 
 
Footnote:
Matthew 26:13.
 

 
Matthew 26:13
13 Verily I say unto you, Wheresoever this gospel shall be preached in the whole world, there shall also this, that this woman hath done, be told for a memorial of her.
 
 
Footnote:
Malachi 3:16.
 

 
Malachi 3:16
16 Then they that feared the LORD spake often one to another: and the LORD hearkened, and heard it, and a book of remembrance was written before him for them that feared the LORD, and that thought upon his name.
 
 
Footnote:
Philippians 4:3.
 

 
Philippians 4:3
3 And I intreat thee also, true yokefellow, help those women which laboured with me in the gospel, with Clement also, and with other my fellowlabourers, whose names are in the book of life.
 
 
Footnote:
Luke 10:20.
 

 
Luke 10:20
20 Notwithstanding in this rejoice not, that the spirits are subject unto you; but rather rejoice, because your names are written in heaven.
 
 
Footnote:
Malachi 3:17.
 

 
Malachi 3:17
17 And they shall be mine, saith the LORD of hosts, in that day when I make up my jewels; and I will spare them, as a man spareth his own son that serveth him. {jewels: or, special treasure}
 
 
Revelation 3:5
5 He that overcometh, the same shall be clothed in white raiment; and I will not blot out his name out of the book of life, but I will confess his name before my Father, and before his angels.