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15. Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
What parent, what instructor of children, will not bear sad, but decisive, testimony to the foolishness of the child? ‘A little innocent’ — is the miscalled name of fondness and fancy. One only of Adam's race, and he — adored be his name! preserved by his holy conception (Luke 1:35) — lays claim to it. Foolishness is the birthright of all besides. The early development of waywardness and passion, — even before the power of speech;† before the child is capable of observing and imitating those around him — is a touching, but undeniable, evidence of the innate principle. Resistance therefore cannot begin too early. Education should commence even in the cradle.
Observe — it is foolishness, not childishness. That might belong to an unfallen child. No moral guilt attaches to the recollection — “When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child.” (1 Corinthians 13:11.) ‘A child is to be punished’ — as Mr. Scott wisely observed — ‘not for being a child, but for being a wicked child.’† Comparative ignorance, the imperfect and gradual opening of the faculties, constitute the nature, not the sinfulness of the child. The holy “child increased in wisdom.” (Luke 2:52.) But foolishness is the mighty propensity to evil — imbibing wrong principles, forming bad habits, entering into an ungodly course. It means the very root and essence of sin in a fallen nature — the folly of being revolted from a God of love. It includes all the sins of which a child is capable — lying, deceit (Psalm 58:3), willfulness, perverseness, want of submission to authority (Job 11:12) — a fearful aptness for evil, and revulsion against good. It is not the sheet of pure white paper; not the innocent, or even the tractable, creature, easily guided by proper means, that we have before us; but a little heart full of sin, containing all the seeds of future evil, multiplying to a fruitful harvest.
We delight in our children's harmless play. We would make ourselves one with them in their sportiveness. But this foolishness — visible every hour before our eyes — never let it be a subject of sport, but of deep and constant sadness. Nor let childhood plead as an excuse for this foolishness. Children's sins may not be chargeable with the guilt of adult responsibility; yet God has awfully shewn, that they are sins against Himself. The judgment on the “little children” of Bethel is enough to make “both the ears of” thoughtless parents “to tingle.” (2 Kings 2:23, 24.)
But whence the origin of this foolishness? “Look unto the rock whence we are hewn.” Look unto “Adam” our father, and unto “Eve that bare us.” (Isaiah 51:1, 2.) As is the root, so are the branches. As is the fountain, so are the waters. Our nature was poisoned at the spring. Our sinful parent, having lost God's image, could only “beget a son after his image” (Genesis 5:3) — a sinner begetting a sinner. “That which is born of the flesh is flesh” (John 3:6), and could be nothing else. Now “who can bring a clean thing out of an unclean?” (Job 14:4; 25:4.) The creature therefore is produced into being with a radical enmity to God; — “by nature” therefore “a child of wrath.” (Ephesians 2:3.) The entail is held from “our first father,” and can never be cut off. There is no division of this sad inheritance. Each of his children has the whole. His Maker testifies, that he is “a transgressor from the womb, that his heart is evil from his youth.”† In shame he acknowledges the testimony — “Behold! I was shapen in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me.” (Psalm 51:5.) If the joy of a child's birth blot out the remembrance of its pain and sorrow (John 16:21), yet must not this joy be chastened in the humbling recollection of what the child brings into the world — foolishness? That self-will, that proud independence, that shakes the very foundations of society, is the birth-sin of our fallen nature. Nor does it lie only on the surface, like some childish habits, easily corrected. It is bound in the child's heart, ‘held firmly there by chains invincible to human power.’† It is incorporated into his very nature. And so various are its forms, so subtle its workings, that the wisest parent is often at a loss how to detect and treat the evil.
The prescribed remedy, however, is clear. It is vain to bid the foolishness depart. And little inclination is there in the child himself to drive it far away. The rod of correction is distinctly named, and repeatedly inculcated, as God's own means for this important end.† And surely the thought of having been an instrument of producing nature envenomed against a God of love must constrain the parent to use the means thus divinely appointed for destroying the deadly poison.
Only let the child see, that, as with our heavenly Father, love is the ruling principle;† that we follow the example of the wisest and best of parents, that we use his rod for driving men from foolishness;† that, like him, we “chasten, not for our pleasure, but for our child's profit” (Hebrews 12:10); not from caprice or passion, but from tenderness to his soul. Use the LORD's means, and we can then, what otherwise we cannot do, wait in faith for the promised blessing. Many a stirring movement of the flesh will be restrained. Man's will will be put down, and God's will gain the supremacy. Shame of sin will issue in abhorrence; and in this sorrow and humiliation the path of wisdom will be chosen, loved, and followed. (Chapter 29:15.)
We have indeed no right to demand to see God's reasons for his ordinance. Yet we may be permitted, in part at least, to trace its workings. Habits are of immense value, as wrought into the character by the Holy Spirit. But there must be a beginning, and the use of means to fix the principle. If a child be punished for falsehood; to avoid future punishment, he abstains, and speaks the truth. As he advances, he finds the blessing and comfort of the right path. He learns gradually to speak truth from a higher motive. Insensibly his conscience acquires tenderness respecting it; and it becomes a principle in his character. Thus the rod of correction performs its work with permanent benefit.
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