Bridges on Proverbs 13:3
 
 
Charles Bridges on Proverbs 13:3
 
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3.  He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
 
The last Proverb contrasted a fruitful and mischievous — this a cautious and ungoverned — tongue. “Keep thine heart.” (Chapter 4:23.) This guards the citadel. Keep thy mouth. This sets a watch at the gates. If they be well guarded, the city is safe. Leave them unprotected — Thus was Babylon taken. ‘He that looketh carefully to his tongue takes a safe course for preserving his life, which is oft in danger by much and wild talking.’ Think before we speak; ponder our words, their substance, manner, time, place, audience. The unruly member needs a strong bridle, and a strong hand to hold it. (James 3:2, 3.) Though it be necessary to open our lips; yet to open them wide; to let all come out; is a fearful hazard. (Chapter 10:14; 12:13.) For if “in the multitude of words there wanteth not sin” (Chapter 10:19), this evil must bring us within the jaws of destruction.
“Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; and keep the door of my lips” (Psalm 141:3) — was the prayer of one, who knew the danger of an ungoverned tongue, and the only way to tame it. Shall we not call in God's help, in the recollection, how often has our unguarded tongue “given place to the devil” (Ephesians 4:27), and “grieved the Holy Comforter”? (Ib. verse 30.) How much more matter do we make for repentance by our speaking than by our silence! Let the practical power of faith quicken watchfulness and prayer, self-abasement and self-discipline, godly fear and energy of conflict. Two things are clear. But for the blood of Christ, the mass of guilt from the sins of the tongue would have condemned us for ever; and in proportion as the “little member” is bridled, “the peace of God rules in the heart.”
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Proverbs 4:23
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. {with...: Heb. above all keeping}
 
 
Footnote:
Bishop Hall, Chapter 21:23. Psalm 34:12, 13.
 

 
Proverbs 21:23
23 ¶ Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.
 
Psalm 34:12, 13
12 What man is he that desireth life, and loveth many days, that he may see good? 13 Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile.
 
 
James 3:2, 3
2 For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body. 3 Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.
 
 
Proverbs 10:14
14 ¶ Wise men lay up knowledge: but the mouth of the foolish is near destruction.
 
Proverbs 12:13
13 ¶ The wicked is snared by the transgression of his lips: but the just shall come out of trouble. {The wicked...: Heb. The snare of the wicked is in the transgression of lips}
 
 
Proverbs 10:19
19 ¶ In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise.
 
 
Psalm 141:3
3 Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips.
 
 
Ephesians 4:27
27 Neither give place to the devil.
 
 
Ephesians 4:30
30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.